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 PERFECTLY IMPERFECT LIKE- WHEN THE WEATHER IS HOT & HUMID BUT...STORMS START BREWING AND YOU JUST WISH FOR DOWN POURS TO STAND UNDER LIKE- WHEN YOU WORK SO HARD FOR THAT BODY YOU SEE ON TV BUT REALIZE..THIS IS WHO THE FUCK I AM.. I AM THE BEST VERSION OF ME I CAN BE LIKE- WHEN YOU SEE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE START TO FADE AWAY AND THINK TO YOURSELF.. SELF? COULD I HAVE DONE THINGS DIFFERENTLY? NOOOO.. BCAUSE IT'S A PART OF LIFE AND THIS IS HOW IT'S MEANT TO BE! LIKE- WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE EVERYONE AROUND YOU HAPPY BUT FORGET..THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON.. IS.. YOU... WITHOUT SELF HAPPINESS THERES NO GOING FORWARD LIKE- WHEN WE LOVE SO DEEPLY AND COMPROMISE WHO  ARE TO PLEASE THAT OTHER PERSON TO LOVE WITH NO RESTRAINT ONLY TO GET YOUR HEART TORN AGAIN.SO YOU SAY YOU'LL NEVER DO IT AGAIN BUT.. ALWAYS DO..BECAUSE..YOU ARE A HOPELESS ROMANTIC YOU SEE THESE ARE LITTLE OR BIG- IMPERFECTIONS THAT PEOPLE BEAT THEMSELVES UP OVER.. WE NEED TO LEARN TO ACCEPT EACH OTHER AS WE AR

The "loving yourself more" challenge

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  Is there much more to say than this? I mean we all know that self love is your first love...right???? or were we conditioned into thinking that you can't possibly love yourself unles someone else shows you the true meaning of love. but... what is the true meaning of love? is it, staying in a situation of any kind, to make others happy and they might show you love? is it, allowing yourself to be disrespected because you think that you don't deserve more? is it, staying at a job because it's convenient or the pay is good but... you wake up miserable every morning and cry in the parkint lot. all before 8am... whew... that's a game changer for sure.  SELF LOVE IS YOUR 1ST AND LAST TRUE LOVE..YOU ARE YOUR OWN SOULMATE, YOU ARE THE REASON YOU WAKE UP HAPPY EVERY DAY, YOU ARE THE REASON YOU SMILE EVERY MORNING AND GO TO BED GRATEFUL. YOU..ARE THE REASON... yes having a person or persons in your life adds to happiness and adds that extra glow..amongst other things.. BUT.. ano