The "loving yourself more" challenge

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 44 Self Love Quotes That Will Make You Mentally Stronger

Is there much more to say than this? I mean we all know that self love is your first love...right???? or were we conditioned into thinking that you can't possibly love yourself unles someone else shows you the true meaning of love. but... what is the true meaning of love? is it, staying in a situation of any kind, to make others happy and they might show you love? is it, allowing yourself to be disrespected because you think that you don't deserve more? is it, staying at a job because it's convenient or the pay is good but... you wake up miserable every morning and cry in the parkint lot. all before 8am... whew... that's a game changer for sure. 


SELF LOVE IS YOUR 1ST AND LAST TRUE LOVE..YOU ARE YOUR OWN SOULMATE, YOU ARE THE REASON YOU WAKE UP HAPPY EVERY DAY, YOU ARE THE REASON YOU SMILE EVERY MORNING AND GO TO BED GRATEFUL.

YOU..ARE THE REASON...

yes having a person or persons in your life adds to happiness and adds that extra glow..amongst other things.. BUT.. another person does not define you... other people come and go in your life to teach you a lesson, to show you that you are capable of loving and giving and being happy...BUT

you are a phenomneanl being and when you doubt that, than you settle becuase you think that's what you deserve. sometimes in life we have to go through some hard shit. things that we never thought someone else would put us through. but when we finally get the courage to break free of those chains, we are free to find ourselves again, love ourselves again.. and never look back.

this is true in all aspects of life. relationships, work, friends.

we need to learn to love oursleves enough , to be more selfish, to be fearless and take those risks because life is to short not too.

so i guess what i'm trying to say is... 

EAT THAT CAKE

MEET RANDOM PEOPLE

MAKE CONNECTIONS

WEAR A CROP TOP EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU CAN'T

BUY THOSE SHOES

WEAR A WIG

DANCE IN THE RAIN

TELL SOMEONE YOU JUST MET HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THEM WITH NO REGRETS.

LIVE YOUR BEST FUCKIN LIFE WITH NO REGRETS BECAUSE IN THE END IT IS YOU THAT NEEDS TO BE HAPPY ENOUGH WITH LOVING YOURSELF ENOUGH 

in order to add to the world... 


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